To be
diagnosed with an autoimmune diseases is not only devastating but also
stressful, especially if the doctor tells you that there is no cure, except
controlling the disease symptoms with steroid medications.
The first and foremost thing to do is to de-stress yourself so that you will have clarity of mind to deal with the health issue and its related implications in your life.
Walk to de-stress as if everything is a miracle. Yes, walking can de-stress you, provided you are mindful of how you walk.
Walking
is one of the most common exercises because it is simple and easy to do—you
just walk. You may walk to your workplace or any destination, or
you simply walk as a physical exercise. But walking is more than a physical
activity that promotes your physical health; walking can enhance your mind
power to help you cope with your everyday stress—if you have the know-how.
Most of
us just walk with our feet, but without fully utilizing the exercise of walking
to benefit the mind, because walking is so automatic and mechanical that we no
longer pay any attention to our walking. In other words, we don’t concentrate
when we are walking or doing the exercise of walking. We are so caught up with
our destination—such as attending a meeting, or going shopping—that we have no
awareness of the process of walking. Many of us have put our feet on automatic
pilot, and we just walk like robots.
The
human brain is the hardware of your whole being. Your brain is responsible for
your stress. It is all in your mind. You are what you think, and you have
become what you think—or the realities you have created for yourself. Stress is
all in your perceptions; what is stress to you may not be stress to others.
Therefore, manage your stress through you mind. You control your own thinking,
and your brain creates your own world: how you live your life, and how happy
you are, and how you see your everyday stress. And you are responsible
for how you feel—even the stresses in life.
This is what happens when stress occurs. You have a thought (usually a negative one) about the stressful event or situation. Your thought sends electrical signals to your brain, which releases chemicals, and you become aware of your own thinking. No matter what you think, your thought is real to you, and must be treated as real. The goal is not to discard that thought or to distract yourself from that thought, but to change your perception of that thought.
So, how
to walk to de-stress?
When
walking, first and foremost, pay attention to your breaths: your breathing in
and breathing out, as well as the intensity of your breaths. Next, pay
attention to the sensations of your body, such as the feelings of your soles
and toes as your shoes touch the ground. Also, pay attention to the shifting of
your body weight as you move from your right foot to the left foot. Just be
mindful of what is happening to your body as you are walking. The objective of
mindfulness walking is to stop your thinking mind for deep relaxation to
de-stress yourself. It is like walking meditation
To be
able to change that thought, you must be aware of your body's
reactions to the chemicals released by your brain as that thought occurs. For
example, notice how your muscles tense up when you are distressed.
The next step is to talk back to that negative thought. Change your thought, and do not believe it. Learn how to train your mind to change your thought, and accordingly change your feeling about that thought. Reinforce your changed feeling by talking back to that thought which gives you the stress. Always use positive affirmations.
Next time, when you are confronted by a stressful situation, think "STOP!" Take a deep breath. Do some mental reflection, such as asking yourself why you think you are distressed. Acknowledge any feeling of anxiety, and become aware of the subtle changes in your physical body. Talk back to any negative thought responsible for creating the stress. The final step is to take appropriate action. Make a list of possible solutions to the problem. If it requires tackling the problem immediately, take the action at once: procrastination only aggravates the situation. But defer taking action if you are able to deal with it more effectively later on. Relax, such as taking a deep meditation, or doing something enjoyable to calm yourself.
Use your mind to manage your daily
stress. Your brain is like your body muscle: you need to exercise it to
improve your memory, enhance your cognitive power, and increase your IQ.
All in all, use meditation to give clarity of mind, and use mindfulness to enhance your walking exercise/
Stephen
Lau
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